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Vincent Ciesielski Jr.

July 29, 1991 — October 4, 2020

Born in Baltimore, MD on July 29, 1991 Departed on October 4, 2020 and resided in Hendersonville, TN Visitation: Alexander Funeral Home and Cremation Center Room: chapelSunday October 11, 2020 1:00pm to 3:00pmCelebration of Life: Alexander Funeral Home and Cremation Center Room: chapelSunday October 11, 2020 3:00pm
Vincent "VJ" Raymond Ciesielski Jr.

Born in Baltimore, MD on July 29, 1991

Departed on October 4, 2020 and resided in Hendersonville, TN

Visitation: Alexander Funeral Home and Cremation Center Room: chapelSunday October 11, 2020 1:00pm to 3:00pmCelebration of Life: Alexander Funeral Home and Cremation Center Room: chapelSunday October 11, 2020 3:00pm

Vinncent "VJ" Raymond Ciesielski Jr., age 29 of Hendersonville, TN passed away on October 4, 2020. VJ was born July 29, 1991 in Baltimore, MD. He is preceded in death by grandparents, Freddie and Patricia Lomineck. He is survived by Father, Vinnie (Beth, wife) Ciesielski; Mother, Tina Hlad and Fiancée Michael Moore; children, Oliver and Callia Ciesielski; grandparents, Vincent (Geraldine, wife) Ciesielski; Brothers, Kyle Shipley and Blake Hlad; Sisters, Kayla Luke, Brooke Hlad and Brysen Hlad; Step-father, Mark Hlad; Mother of children, Katelyn Henderson; Girlfriend, Aris "Honey girl" Buycks.

VJ was employed by Sumner County Sheriff Department, Nelson Mazda of Cool Springs and Hyundai of Columbia. He loved music and his hobbies included: guitar, piano, fishing and watching Shark Week with his children. He was an amazing singer and enjoyed admiring himself in front of the mirror.

Celebration of life service is to be held Sunday, October 11th at 3:00pm in the chapel of Alexander Funeral Home & Cremation Center with Pastor Kody Woodard officiating. Visitation will be held Sunday, October 11th from 1:00pm-3:00pm.

In lieu of flower the family respectfully request all donations be made to the account for VJ's children:

33 Comments jerrie ciesielski October 8, 2020 at 5:12 pm - Reply

words cannot express……….walk those golden streets with your Lord and Saviour grandson…….

Teri (Hitch) Gregory October 8, 2020 at 6:00 pm - Reply

I am so sorry, Mrs. Ciesielski. Prayers for you and your family.

Nio October 8, 2020 at 5:16 pm - Reply


Vince Barranco October 8, 2020 at 6:11 pm - Reply

Heartbroken and praying for some sense of peace in VJ's family that he will always be a huge part of you. I remember him as a smiling 9 year old boy full of joy and wonder. God rest you young man and somehow bring comfort to your loving family.
With deepest love and sympathy,

Joni and Randy Leago October 8, 2020 at 6:26 pm - Reply

Such a wonderful guy, we are still in shock. We are praying for you and the family. We are truly heart.

Jerry and Carol Boarts October 8, 2020 at 7:05 pm - Reply

Beth and Vinnie,
We know that words cannot erase the sadness and pain that you are feeling but we hope that you will take comfort in knowing that we are thinking of you and praying for your comfort and peace.
In sympathy,
Jerry and Carol Boarts

Sonya Troutt October 8, 2020 at 8:09 pm - Reply

So very sorry! May God give you comfort and strength during the time.

Willie Greene Jr. October 8, 2020 at 8:27 pm - Reply


Jon October 8, 2020 at 8:53 pm - Reply

We are sorry. Katelyn, you and the kids are in our prayers, as is the rest of VJ’s family. We love you all,

Jon , Geretta, Jessica, and Brant Weidner.

Joshua Crenshaw October 8, 2020 at 10:19 pm - Reply

I send my deepest condolences to the family of my classmate, VJ! Words cannot express how full of life and joy he has been to everyone who has encountered him. I last saw him at our 10 yr reunion and I can honestly say he had not changed. I'm glad I got that moment. Peace and blessings to his family!

Tiffany Burleson October 8, 2020 at 11:19 pm - Reply

The family is constantly in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all.

The Burlesons

Mark and Oressa Ristvedt October 8, 2020 at 11:39 pm - Reply

We were saddened to learn that VJ passed away. Our thoughts are with he and all of his family. Sending healing prayers to all.

Kathy Stinson October 9, 2020 at 12:09 am - Reply

To Vinnie, Beth and all who loved this precious soul,
I have been praying for you all and will continue to pray for a "peace that passes all understand" that comes from God.

Tami Reeder Bugas October 9, 2020 at 1:11 am - Reply

Vince and Beth,
I'm so sorry that you have to go thru this. My prayers are with you and your family.

Ruthie Williams October 9, 2020 at 1:12 am - Reply

Aris, I know your heart must be so broken. You are in my prayers " Honey girl".

Rob Still October 9, 2020 at 1:51 am - Reply

Vinnie –
I am so very, very sorry to hear this. Praying for your family in this time of grief. May you experience the comfort of the Holy Spirit. Mourning with and for you all.- Rob Still

Rob Still October 9, 2020 at 1:55 am - Reply

I am so very very sorry to learn of this. Praying for your families. May you experience the comfort of the Holy Spirit. We mourn with and for you all.

Mark T. Jordan October 9, 2020 at 4:00 am - Reply

Dear Vinnie –
Oh, my dear old friend, you must be heart-broken. My profound sympathy to you and Beth and your families, and to Oliver and Callia. Although I never got to meet VJ, I can see by the smiles on all three faces that he’s got a lot of you in him, and that he’s a great dad. So you were, too. Had to be where he got it.

Even though each of us is old enough by now to have experienced death, and maybe to process it, the loss of a child – of any age – is a devastating blow for a parent to have to bear. It seems so contrary to the laws of nature. And so senseless and capricious, too. It can feel like a bitter test of our faith and purpose.

I have no idea how you’ll begin to heal, but when you’re ready, you’ll find a way. I’d say take all the time you need to mourn. And be kind to yourself. Make little steps. They’ll grow into a path forward. The unimaginable will become manageable. And if you ever need a lift somewhere along that path, I’m one call away.

Sending love and my sincerest condolences to you –
Mark T.

Carl Peterson October 9, 2020 at 4:13 am - Reply

I had the privilege of working at the Sheriff’s Office for a while with him. He was a good guy, always upbeat, and always had the final come back at you..That’s a funny trait..He made others laugh..I also had the opportunity to play with him on stage with was a privilege..I know you’re up there arm and arm with Angel’s, singing loud and proud. My condolences to the family. You abruptly had to say goodbye, but as a Christian, I know you will see each other again in paradise..What a glorious day that will be. I’m sorry I cant make the service..I now live in South Florida, but will be there in spirit. Stay strong, lean on God. SKI is smiling down on you..I guarantee it..

God bless..
Carl Peterson

Steve Martin October 9, 2020 at 4:49 am - Reply

Vinnie, Shocked and feeling so distressed by your loss. Know that we are praying for you and the whole family.

D'Angelo Mason October 9, 2020 at 5:19 am - Reply

You were an amazing person my friend with an even better soul. I'm shocked and disbelief at this. But I know your in a better place. I can hear you now coming around the corner in high school yelling DLO ! I love you brotha and may your soul watch over us all.

Lori Hall October 9, 2020 at 6:33 am - Reply

I am so sorry to hear of this! God Bless you all! May you all have Peace in the coming days and know you have friends and loved ones who are here to comfort you!
Lori Hall

Bart Robins October 9, 2020 at 10:32 am - Reply

I’m so very sorry to hear of your loss. Any words I have are inadequate. Please know I’m thinking of you and praying for comfort for the entire family.

Penny Wix October 9, 2020 at 12:38 pm - Reply

I’m sure he is in heaven now make our Christ laugh about something… prayers for your family in this time of loss.

Erik Blue October 9, 2020 at 2:54 pm - Reply

Vinnie, my prayers are with you and your family during this extremely difficult time

Terri A Pharr October 9, 2020 at 2:56 pm - Reply

Vinnie, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. YOU are awesome and you have an awesome support system. Love to all and God Speed.

Kimberly Bryan October 9, 2020 at 5:23 pm - Reply

Vinnie and Beth. Even though I never met him it sounds as though he was a chip off the old block. I can't imagine what you are going through but it seems you have a great support system. Lean on them and each other. My heart is breaking for you and your family. Prayers to all of you.

Larry Crew October 9, 2020 at 6:26 pm - Reply

Deepest sympathy to you and your family Vinnie. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Jo Jo and Bubba October 9, 2020 at 9:08 pm - Reply

Tina, Kyle, Kayla, Blake, Brooke and all the family. We are heart broken for you. We are praying for comfort and peace for you. When I think of VJ I smile because he was always so upbeat and happy.
Love Ya’ll

Myresha Ellis October 10, 2020 at 9:00 am - Reply

I am sorry to hear of this. VJ was an awesome friend and manager! I pray for your comfort and strength!

Karen Spidle October 10, 2020 at 1:01 pm - Reply

To Vince and family, so heartbroken for you and your loved ones to be going through this tragedy. May great memories of V.J. get you through this, hugs to all…
Karen Kratosky Spidle

Kim Patterson October 10, 2020 at 1:47 pm - Reply

Vinnie and Beth, My heart breaks for you. Loss of a loved one is hard. Loss of your child is unimaginable. I'm certain VJ is in God's arms at peace. I pray God will give you supernatural comfort, peace and strength as you mourn and eventually begin to heal. I will keep you and the rest of his family in my prayers.

Janet Ciesielski October 10, 2020 at 5:10 pm - Reply

Vince and Beth, Ski is in hospital right now, devastated by this news. He will call you as soon as he gets home.

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